I did a quiz to discover what my love language is and I think it can be pretty helpful for couples to better understand each other. I got Andy to do it too.
Unhappiness in relationships, according to Dr. Gary Chapman, is often due to the fact that we speak different love languages. Sometimes we don’t understand our partner’s requirements, or even our own. We all have a “love tank” that needs to be filled in order for us to express love to others, but there are different means by which our tank can be filled, and there are different ways that we can express love to others.
The results:
My primary love language is probably
Quality Time
with a secondary love language being
Physical Touch.
Andy’s primary love language is probably
Quality Time
with a secondary love language being
Physical Touch.
Wow! Whaddya know, a perfect match eh!
Anyway, here’s the breakdown of our results:
My complete set
Quality Time: 11
Physical Touch: 8
Acts of Service: 5
Words of Affirmation: 4
Receiving Gifts: 2
Andy’s complete set
Quality Time: 11
Physical Touch: 6
Words of Affirmation: 6
Receiving Gifts: 5
Acts of Service: 2